Thursday, December 31, 2009

Cleansing The Heart...one more time


As we approach the NEW year, It always gives us at least a small moment to reflect and hopefully make at least a mental note of a few things that we would like to pursue or work on in the coming year. I always try to improve on my personal self, the one deep inside of me, the one who tends to make huge mistakes at times and the one who i hope makes a difference in at least some of the lives i come in contact with.
It is my goal to be a better friend to the people who i love so dearly and have seen me through some of life's most challenging moments. It is my goal to slow down and always be in the moment wherever I am.( that's such a hard one for me). I personally have got to get back to my ART this year,reconnect with old friends and discover a whole new life out there. God has set forth so many changes in my life lately that I know he is preparing me for something major. On the one hand I am very anxious about what that will be and on the other I am very excited to see it unfold before my eyes. I pray that I can make better choices this year, and I hate to say it but be less trusting, well maybe I should say more cautious, in my personal relationships, This seems to get me in a lot of trouble when it comes to matters of the heart. So In 2010 I will one more time cleanse my heart and start anew, because I certainly believe that my friends and family deserve the best me that I give them. I plan to embrace LIFE and LIVE every moment as if it were my last.Looking forward to having a very healthy and enlightning 2010.

Terri

Cleansing the Heart

Sunday, December 27, 2009

Now that It's Done......

When we take things that are meant to be really simple and complicate them, I have discovered this is WHERE THE STRESS BEGINS!!!! Hey folks we need to talk about Christmas for just a moment. I remember when Christmas, meant we went and got a tree just before Christmas, somewhere around my Birthday and we all decorated it with the ornaments that we had for ever since i could remember,and put a star on top, or somethimes and angel. I decorated 5 trees this year and the entire kitchen and the Back and Front of the house, and needed to have done a lot more in order to keep up with the neighbors. Don't get me wrong I love every minute of it, and It is absolutely beautiful and makes for a fun and festive event, but I start stressing about this before Thanksgiving and i'm still trying to get finishing touches done the day of Christmas. You know you can't just hang a wreath on the door anymore, you have to surround the entire entry way with the netting stuff and secure ten dollar a piece balls to that and make sure the lights are all burning brightly. personally we only own 1 blow up device and it never even got blown up this year, but some folks have many...And I really appreciate all the wonderful people who put out the thousands of lights every year for us to ride around and look at, but you better make sure you have given up your day job before you undertake this venture. Like I said I really enjoy decorating my home and transforming it into Christmas Cheer...It's the taking it down and packing it up that is the problem. I counted this year and I had 37 Totes and Bags of Christmas whatever...I'm not sure how many ornaments there are but this takes up 80% of the space in a 12x16 storage house. So I have decided that next year We will have 1 tree, and 1 wreath, We will enjoy , the people who gave up their day jobs to put up lights decorations and maybe I can come away destressed. All I want for Christmas next year is a gift certificate to a message of the month club, massage therapist delivered to my home monthly, and all the sound of the sea cd's ever made. I will then(as soon as Christmas is over) go on a cruise in the Carribean and lay back and let a little malaysian boy bring me pink umbrellas til the cows come home..Or in this case ( til I come home). So now that it's done and we've all eaten too much, stressed too much and earned a well deserved nervous breakdown, Let's all take a deep breath and Say thank you Lord for giving us The Lord Jesus in a manger far away with his tiny head asleep on the hay........

Now that It's DONE........






Sunday, December 20, 2009

Joy at it's Best

Today's Joy was found at my Little Church in the Woods...Antioch Christian Church. After a wonderful morning service, tonite was the Anual Christmas program presented by the children in our small church. It absolutely amazes me, each year as i watch and listen to these children ages 2 to 12, stand for a whole hour and sing and perform speaking parts like little pros. Their voices sound like angels and for the most part their behavior is superb for children of their age. I have to hand it to Brooke Hollingsworth, Dawn Sibley and all the other wonderful teachers who take these little ones and make them into professionals for this one very special night. My heart was warmed, i forgot all my stresses and I was of course very proud of my daughter. I hope each of you have the chance this season to witness Christmas through the eyes of a child, especially the part of Christmas that has absolutely nothing to do with presents of any kind , except for the Best Present of All .......Baby Jesus,,,,,Happy Birthday and thank you my Lord for all our Blessings, and Children that make us stop and think about why we celebrate in the first place.

Saturday, December 12, 2009

30 days of Joy ...In the Moment


Ok I know I 've been slacking but only because I've been very busy. I have restarted my life after a very stressful 6 months, but i am very grateful for the struggles for I know I have grown as a person and the Lord has taught me the precious lesson of how to forgive those who wrong us. I am desperately trying to work on patience now and thanks to one very special person in my life I believe I might conquer that one also. All this is leading up to something that has been on my heart to share with ya'll for a few weeks. The JOY of being in the moment.....I have always had a problem with not staying in the moment ...I have struggled with this and now I finally realize it's importance in my life.

I realized about 8 weeks ago that if I didn't start living in the moment I would never truly be happy. Being that I am the personality that I am, ( a big planner, analyzer and implimentor) I seemed to get disappointed alot when things didn't go exactly like I planned in my head. I realized that I needed to let go and enjoy what was actually happening whether it was good , bad or indifferent. I know I can't enjoy the moment if I am thinking about things I need to do, or if everyone else is having a good time , etc. So I have discovered a NEW JOY and that is staying in the moment and cherishing everything about it. To me it's like the bride who spends months and sometimes years to plan every little detail of the wedding and then can't remember any of it because she was so worried that some little detail was missed. How wonderful would it be if she had been truly in the moment and soaked up every expression on her husbands face , instead of worrying about whether Aunt Sally and Cousin Luther actually noticed that the ribbon on the stairs didn't quite match the ribbon in the bridesmaids bouquets.

During the analytical phase of all the self developement I realized that one of places or times that i am usually in the moment is in church. I have always been there for one reason and that is to hear God's word and try to implement those priorities in my life.

So now that I have found this New JOY in my life , what do I plan to do with it? Well I plan to milk every moment for what's it's worth. I am quite sure this is going to open my eyes to a lot of things that I was not really seeing before. I am ready for that challenge and really ready for the JOY that I feel it is going to bring to my life.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

30 days of Joy Day 16


You Know your life is full of Joy when you don't have the time to sit and write about it....Oh what a beautiful and fun loving weekend this was...All the people I love so much with me and sharing laughter and Joy who could ask for more. I enjoy so many things , but for me to be able to snuggle on the couch with the man of my dreams and watch a Hallmark movie and him love it as much as me ???what a treat this was. You know you're in love when someone brings a calming spirit and they make even the most complicated problems seem small. You no longer even want to think about the small stuff, much less sweat about it. You know everything will be ok.
I remember when i first became and christian and accepted the Lord as my personal savior, I was 9 years old and it was at that moment that I knew ,as hard as my life was, the Lord was going to take care of me and show me the way. I have for the last 43 years always depended on that faith and the Lord has never let me down. I have let myself down a few times, when I thought i knew best, but if I back up, relax, be patient and listen the Lord has always guided me in the right direction and placed me in the right situations, and Allowed me to work at the right Jobs so that i feel satiesfied and know daily that i have truly helped someone in need.
Sometimes we think we want one thing and the Lord has other plans, for he knows us better than we know ourselves. He knows what church you need to be a part of , he knows what type of person you need to marry and he will if you be patient enough put that patient in your path and when the two of you meet you will know instantly that this is the person you should have in your life. Stop and listen to the Lord and what he's trying to tell you, whether it be the disatiesfaction that you're feeling in the work place, when people are being dishonest and spiteful because of jealously and fear or if you are realizing that you have made wrong choices choosing your mate, the Lord will guide you , but you have to get still enough to listen. If you feel your family does not get you or understand who you are , if you will give it to the Lord , then he will fix everything for you. But your faith will have to be pure and you will have the responsibility of recognizing answered prayers and being able to know that sometimes unanswered prayers are best, because the Lord Knows What he is doing and if you let him , then he will afford you a life of happiness, peace and well being . I believe that in no way does the Lord ever want one of his children to have to suffer. Over the past 10 years My life has been no bed of roses and the losses I have experienced through death are so great...but my faith in the Lord absolutely has brougt me to a place in my life where I recognize his path for me and I know I will embrace this new path and walk hand in hand with my Lord and even when struggles and strife can not be avoided, again I will not be alone and he will pick me up and remake my spirit so that I will not have to suffer forever. Thank you Lord for loving me enough to send me just the right person, to once again make my life complete and full. I hope i never get so busy again that I do not recognize your answers . Thank you SAM , FOR lOVING ME....I NOW kNOW THAT I DESERVE YOU , MY FEARS ARE NO MORE AND I PROMISE TO ALWAYS ACCEPT THE LOVE THAT YOU GIVE SO FREELY TO ME .

Sunday, November 8, 2009

30 days of JOY---Day 15



Todays JOY was found in remembering great times with old friends....the ones who stick by you even when the chips are down....I found myself remembering good food and goodtimes...I sure will be glad when MUD BUG SEASON is on again!!! I have this little coon-ass friend that really knows his stuff when it comes to cooking shrimp and crawfish....thanks Frankie and I think you're little wife has a lot to do with that also. You two are the best of friends and I miss ya'll very much , I think it is probably time for a road trip in about 2 weeks..Hope these pics make you hungry for the real thing.....get cooking so i can be invited...Love you.....Terri

Thursday, November 5, 2009

30 days of JOY ---Day 14


Today's JOY came in the form of silliness , No pill or drug can replace a bad mood better than seeing the world through the eyes of a child. Every now and again we need to just let our hair down and be a child again. Play with your child in the hammock and listen as they giggle, cause someone is grabbing for their toes everytime it swings close. Watch the joy on a childs face as they get their bike going to full speed and they are imagining that it's a car and they're driving. Get in the porch swing and push it as high as it will go then just let it sway until it comes to a stop. Lay on your back in the grass and see how many shapes you can make out in the clouds. Take the time to watch what your children do for fun so that you can mimick and remind yourself just what it was really like to feel free of stress. Laugh uncontrollably for at least 5 minutes , you know the one where the tears start to flow, and you snort a little , and embarrass yourself because you almost wet your pants. When was the last time you did this. When was the last time you let yourself be yourself. I was able to be myself today for the first time in a long time. Thanks Sam and Abbie you were just what the Doctor ordered . One of my favorite quotes is Dance Like No ones watching, Sing like no one is listening and Live like there is no tommorow....Just for a moment close your eyes and imagine what your life would be like if you did this even for a day....I challenge each of you to take time out this weekend to be a kid again...try to see it through their eyes, try to do it like they do it, play so hard that you fall asleep in your clothes before your husband gets supper ready( that was a joke so you could start laughing now!!!) Well goodnight everyone, hope your weekend is as good as mine is going to be.......

30 days of Joy----Day 12

Today I write about the Joy of Communication, Good Communication that is...The kind that makes it possible for a relationship to work and to make it happen and to make it last forever.
he kind of commnication that people can finish their words for one another and know what and how the other is thinking. Then there's the oposite, you know you've been there a time or two, you sit down with this person and start to try and talk , make conversation of any kind, and that person just simply gives no feed back....then what do you do? What do you say , what can you say? That's why those relationships never work. I am not talking necessisarily romantic relationships here. I know i had a work relationship with a person, that when it came to true communication she did not have a clue as to what it was about. She thought communication meant she spouted out what she had to say and that was the end of it. If you even try to talk to these people, then they have turned of their capacity to listen even before they ended their verbalization. I really feel sorry for these folks for they will never enjoy true communication. They are the ones who ask you a question and before you get out the answer then they have already asked another question. You know you've been there too.. I feel so blessed to have very good communicators in my corner right now, and it's time to open up , rebuild and experience the truest blessing of all LIFE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Saturday, October 31, 2009

DAY 12 --30 DAYS OF JOY

TRUE JOY CAME IN THE FORM OF ANSWERED PRAYERS TODAY. THIS WAS ONE OF THE FUNNEST, FUNNIEST, AND MOST COMPLETE DAYS I CAN REMEMBER FOR A LONG TIME.
ITSN'T IT FUNNY HOW GOD KNOWS SO MUCH BETTER THAN US WHAT WE NEED AND WHEN WE NEED IT, AND HE SENDS IT , JUST AT THE RIGHT MOMENT , JUST AT THE RIGHT TIME IN YOUR LIFE WHEN YOU ARE ABLE TO RECOGNIZE AND EXCEPT IT.
IF WE ARE FORTUNATE ENOUGH TO KNOW THAT THIS IS THE ANSWER WE'VE BEEN WAITING FOR , THEN WE GRAB IT AND MAKE THE VERY BEST OF IT CAUSE IT'S NOT EVERY DAY THAT THESE BLESSNG COME OUR WAY. SO MY JOY TODAY CAME STRAIGHT FROM GOD IN MORE WAYS THAN I CAN COUNT. I WILL ACCEPT IT AND CHERISH THIS DAY FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE.......THANK YOU GOD FOR ONCE AGAIN SHOWING ME YOUR LIGHT AND THE PATH THAT YOU WOULD HAVE ME WALK.
TERRI

Friday, October 30, 2009

30 DAYS OF JOY---UNCONDITIONAL LOVE



WHAT A JOY IT IS TO HAVE SOMEONE WHO LOVES YOU UNCONDITIONALLY. LIFE IS SO FULL OF UNEXPECTED TRADGEDY AND LOSS IT IS SUCH A WONDERFUL FEELING TO KNOW YOU HAVE SOMEONE WHO EXCEPTS YOU JUST THE WAY YOU ARE , AND IS WILLING TO LOVE YOU AND BE A PART OF YOUR LIFE. IF YOU KNOW THOSE WHO LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY GIVE THEM AN EXTRA HUG TODAY AND LET THEM KNOW WHAT HAVING THEM AROUND REALLY MEANS TO YOU. WE ARE NOT PROMISED TOMORROW AND YOU MAY NEVER GET THE CHANCE TO SAY I LOVE YOU.

Fall Fun for All---Joy on the 10th day














Oh Boy it's that time of year, so many things to do and so little time. We have managed to squeeze in a few very fun filled days and love this weather. The pumpkin patch was a great day and all the friends had fun. The fair was wonderful with baby cousin Emma Grace and Niece Bonnie and family. We are planning a trip to the mountains to see fall colors and we know we will have a wonderful time there. The treat street at CMRC was a blast and everyones costumes were great. We plan to go downtown Newton on Saturday and enter Sugar Baby in the costume contest so that should be really fun. So what does all of this have to do with JOY....well can't you see it gives me tremendous joy just to see everyone around me HAPPY! Happy Halloween Everyone!!!


Sunday, October 11, 2009

30 Days of JOY, Day 9..Old Vacation Photos










"If you want to bring Yourself true Joy never miss the chance to make a child Happy."


I found true Joy today by looking back on old vacation photos. These are the times in our lives that we will remember , either because it was so much fun or because we were miserable. Hopefully it won't be the latter. One of the biggest Joys I have had is seeing Abbie being transformed into Cinderella. When we watched the video for our soon to be Disney World Vacation, she saw the Bippity Boppity Boutigue ,this was her only request to have a good time at Disney. So that we did, spent the entire afternoon getting madeover then it's off to the Princess and Pirates Party that night at the Magic Kingdom. And Magic it was, the whole park was closed except for those of us who had bought the special package and I will never regret that purchase. We had a wonderful time and the joy it gave me to see my daughter enjoy being a Princess for a day was priceless...So get out your photos and enjoy looking back at the times that gave you joy and made you smile .....

Saturday, October 10, 2009

30 Days of Joy-----day 8

Ok so we all tend to gripe and complain due to the rain. After all it interferes with so many outdoor plans and we as Southerners are definetly outdoor folks. But I really enjoy a great rainy day, the one like today when everything is overcast and it screams, slow down, curl up, get comfy and read a really good romantic book. I can catch up on a Movie I have been meaning to watch for the last six months and actually enjoy it.
And then you have to look at the bright side of rain.....I won't have to fill the bird bath, I won't have to water the flowers, it maybe will wash a little of the rag weed out of the air, so that we can breathe again, and wash at least one layer of dirt of my van so that i don't have to go to the car wash...Yea! RAIN.
And then theres the best thing of all, this rain is supposed to bringing a little fall weather, you know that brisk, put on a sweater and go to the FAIR weather. Which i will have to do some time in the next week. But I do believe if you look on the right side of everything then you will learn to enjoy anything. P.S. You have to have rain to get rainbows, and the sunsets are always prettier afternoon a late afternoon shower. Hope everyone enjoys what's left of this beautiful rainy Saturday. I know I will.

Friday, October 9, 2009

30 days of JOY------Day 7


Today a Joy that comes to mind is the Joy of meditation...of Prayer, and being quiet so that i can hear myself think. ( and in Janet's case, so that she can play with all those other little people in her head) LOL. I used to have a lot of time to think , organize my life and plan in my head. I had plenty of time while i drove between patients to think on many things and it kept me grounded and in the moment. But for the last four years or so I have had constant outside stimulation from other people. Constant questions, listening to others delimmas and problems, me solving problems and of course as soon as i left the office there is Abbie. Ya'll are all of aware of how much conversation, and just idol chatter a 9 year old can accomplish in a very short length of time. OMG!

So today I plan to be silent and listen, listen to what God had to say to me and listen to what I have been trying to say to myself for quite sometime now. That is after i accomplish my goal of cleaning up the back yard and getting out the Halloween Decor.

But the importance of meditation or quiet time is priceless. If you are a busy mom , grandmother etc. You know that even on your best day that others can take away all your down time and you will be giving out much more than you are getting, from those that you love. So I learned a long time ago that it's ok to say no, and that every now and then it is very important to be by yourself and regroup. You have to get back to YOU so to speak.

There are people in our lives who are continously "dipping from our bucket", and then there are those who are continously filling our bucket. For the most of us we would much rather be around those who fill than those who dip. I found that the best thing i ever did was sit down and make a list of those who were dipping and start to ease those out of my life. These are the people who look at life very negatively, they worry all the time instead of just living life. They are drama queens and if something dramatic is not happening around them then they will make some new drama. They are users and losers in my book. They manipulate the people around them to get what they want when they want it. They are actresses to say the least, because they will take on any personality they need to get their goal accomplished. They usually prey on people who are very grounded, nice and ( yes I have to say it, GULLIBLE enough to fall for their Drama). Once you've cleared your life of these people and sent them on to their next victim, you will see just how greatly your life will improve. Do you remember how your parents would not let you associate with certain people,(because they're not our kind), while i do not believe in this on a social status level, I do believe that we should not be around people who continously bring us down and don't lift us up.

So today I will meditate and rewrite my list of folks that i need to rid my self of in order that i can have brighter happier days. So just remember that if you are the one who is dipping from others buckets, they may have you on their list to EASE YOU ON OUT!!!!LOL. Hope everyone has a wonderful day and finds a little time to be Quiet and listen to what YOUR SELF needs.

Thursday, October 8, 2009

Day 6------30 days of Joy


Today my joy is having a clean house, wow, does that ever feel good. I am one of those who can not relax until all the work is done. If i sit down I see a million things that need doing. So if i can reach the point that everything is clean at the sane time then i am in heaven. I have been off work for some time now and I go back on Monday. I have all these goals i want to achieve before i get back into the rat race. You know the ones, clean closets, junk drawers, purge so that i won't wind up on that Hoarder Show on TLC. I also want to get my yard prepared for fall and then, Christmas is just around the corner.

I have always wanted my house to look like a magazine cover, and i have to say it pretty much did, until hurricane Abbie came along. Ok ,what is it about children that they just have to mess up in order to enjoy themselves. She is like the little "PIG PEN" guy on Charlie Brown. Every room she enters she leaves a trail of stuff behind her. She has never been much of a toy child, it's always been paper, pencils, dress up clothes, colors and beads( you know those that you step on in the middle of the night, and wake everybody up with your scream). She is absolutely a walking disaster area. I have been trying to teach her how to organize and pick up after herself , but boy is this a slow never ending process. Any suggestions?????

At any rate my home is clean for the day and hopefully it will stay this way for at least a day. If anyone wants to see it clean you better come over asap cause it won't stay this way long. So today I am full of Joy , cause the maid finally showed up. But I have to tell you she can hardly walk, every muscle is sore and still she feels blessed to be able to sit back and enjoy what she has done, cause no one can do it like I can!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

DAY 5...30 DAYS OF JOY..MY BIGGEST JOY OF ALL

Of course all of you who know us, know that Abbie is my greatest joy of all. She came to us as a miracle and every day with her reminds me of how powerful prayer is and how GOD can just take over and change your life. Her name means a fathers JOY....and that she was. As i see her changing daily before my eyes, i see a mixture of her daddy and me. She is so full of life and energy and she tends to rub of on you. She is a great mood pill, she can lift your spirits in a flash just by her comments. She is very mature for her age. My best friend swears she is an reincarnation of someone in our family cause she has always had a grown up vocabulary and attitude. Abbie is very talented and demands attention when she performs for you. She is full of herself and yet treats others with kindness and respect. She is a great cheerleader with a lot of athleticism and with her drive and determination she continues to excel at whatever she does. She is and has always been , the perfect picture of health and i am so grateful for that as we know other children who are sick almost all the time. She definitely has her own set of drums and walks to a very different beat and i think that will always be a plus in her favor. But the day she wants a tattoo, spiked hair and wants to wear all black with chains I assure you we will not be able to compromise. Mother will win on that one. She does procrastinate way too much, especially when it comes to doing her homework. I am currently trying to teach her what her responsibilities to her self are and her responsibility in life is. She seems to be getting it and things are improving...just not fast enough for mom.....She is a typical 9 year old....and PTL....she is finally over the Hannah Montana phase....It's Taylor Swift now...I love being with her , but unfortunately she would much rather be with her friends. Abbie you are your mother's Joy, and if your Daddy could be here he would tell you the same...We could not have dreamed for a more perfect daughter.....Thank you Abbie for bringing me JOY into our lives.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

day 4 ...30 days of joy

Today I found that one of my biggest Joys, is Color. Ever since i can remember I have always loved color. My Home is colorful My wardrobe probably looks like Walt Disney threw up, and the more of it I have around me the better I feel. Color seems to scare some people. I have had them come into my house and say "Oh, I would never have the nerve to do this. Most of them are standing there with their mouths wide open. I am an artist so I guess that will explain some of it, but I don't think that's,, all of it. If you put me in surroundings with all beige and neutral colors then I quickly become very bored and depressed, so i really feel like I need color in my life to survive. The brighter and bolder the better.
As i look out at nature God's color choices are the best of all. As you gaze at a tree , just try and count the many different greens that are there. Look at the blues, greens, yellows, and pinks that a sunset can produce. I think God likes color as much as i do, and he certainly was not afraid to use it. I call October the Orange month, for all the obvious reasons, but as fall begins to show herself in Mississippi, I love watching all the colors change. Have you ever noticed that even the shadows change. I just wish us working folks had more time to enjoy. Now that the days are getting shorter and shorter we will have to cram in as much of God's beauty as we can.
Before the gas prices skyrocketed and put us all on hold, I used to love to take Sunday afternoon rides to see the different color in the country side. The full moon this past weekend was a glorious site and the gold that lit up my yard , was breathtaking.
As we approach our busiest time of year , please stop long enough to see what God has given us to gaze upon. It is one of the most beautiful paintings ever and it's free. No Museum charges, no hyped up artist Name to pay for, all you have to do is look out a window or step outside., and behold the greatest Artist of all has given you the best gift of all and all you have to do is enjoy.

Monday, October 5, 2009

30 days of Joy ---Day 3

I would have to say that joy has to be found within yourself, but i have so many things that bring me joy, and when i sit and think about them the list just seems to grow bigger and bigger. I think by stopping long enough to actually acknowledge these will put us into a different frame of thought and give a glorious day.
Today i am thinking about the Joy that reminiscing brings to our lives. Whether it be with an old friend a co-worker or a family member, just the words Do you remember when??? seem to get us going. I recently reunited with an old friend, we giggled like school girls and had the best time.
It made me think of when i was growing up in Sylvarena, Ms. My grandmother had a huge pecan tree in her yard. A big swing hung from the strongest branch, and many other chairs were arranged in a circle around the swing. In the afternoons, when it was the hottest, people from the community would stop by an sit under the tree and reminisce about the good ole days. Now i remember them as the "good ole days". It seemed as if everyone always had the time to stop and chat, drink some iced tea and talk about everything from the Bible to what the basketball team was doing at the school.
Today we are in such a hurry to get home and get on the computer , no one ever has time to just stop and chat with an old friend. Facebook has been a great way to reconnect with our friends , but just think how much fun it would be if you and all your high school buds could get together and stay up all night talking .
So reminiscing gives me great Joy. Hope it has made you stop and think just a little about the good ole days, and i hope there is a smile on your face.

Sunday, October 4, 2009

30 DAYS OF JOY DAY 2


Today my joy is the freedom to worship as i like. You see I hear a lot of folks complain about the people in their church. But i'm fortunate enough to have found Antioch Christian Church, where I am always met with a smiling face and a welcome. You know the Love of the Lord is in their hearts and they are there for the same reason I am, simply to worship the Lord. If you don't feel this in your church perhaps you are just paired up with the wrong set of folks. Don't stop going to church , visit others and find your fit.

Saturday, October 3, 2009

30 days of Joy

  • Things that bring me joy, I challenge you to spend the next 30 days writing about one thing a day that brings you Joy. At the end of the 30 days, assess how much better your attitude and personality will be. Day one-------------Bubbles blown in the Back yard
  • Does it get any better than Bubbles? They are fun , light, free , colorful and delicate , they are floaters, just come and go with the wind. I love to try and photograph them and it is not as easy as it seems, but every now and then I get a really good one.
  • Today i will blow bubbles and watch my stress just float away........................................

Friday, October 2, 2009

WHAT'S THIS ALL ABOUT?


Ok, how many of you have rushed home from working all day , dead tired and in one hour managed to get the whole family clean and dressed, fed and watered. Loaded everyone in the car and took off to the ballgame. Now we know this is one of America's favorite pastimes, right? Maybe , maybe not.

You see i am more or less an observer, someone who enjoys observing peoples ways, behaviors and actions. And as I was observing at the local school ballgame tonite, I noticed that out of the huge number of avid supporters of the team, only a mere handful were actually watching the game.

I saw the children running under the bleachers, the parents all talking among themselves, the teenagers huddled in groups talking about the other teenagers huddled in groups and almost everyone was eating something.So this is the way I see it. Most of us could care less about the actual ballgame. We are there for a whole lot of other reasons, not that they're bad mind you. We as Southerners seem to have a natural tendancy to miagrate towards large groups of people, large amounts of over priced food, and any venue in which we can run our mouths. In other words, we LOVE to socialize. We love belonging to a group, and having the feeling that we belong. You know we don't just do this for friday night ballgames, we also do it at church, festivals and the all time favorite.....the FAIR!!!! Why in the world would a normally frugal person go to all the trouble to get dressed, get the whole family dressed and use a tank of gas, and use up all their patience trying to park the vehicle just to get a stupid wiener with a stick stuck through it and dipped in cornbread and fried golden brown. Have we lost our minds??

No , you see we do it to bring back memories, we do for the sake of tradition, it's the one thing we can allow our children to experience that we also experienced at their age. The smells are all the same, a cross between onions, cotton candy, corn dogs, and farm animal manure and hay. And guess what we all love it, we love every bit of it. It's the atmosphere, the memories that make that corndog taste like it came from a five star resturant, and hey is their lemonade any different than anyone elses , i think not, it just plain taste better when you are at the FAIR!

Can we talk funnel cakes for just a moment please. Who thought this one up? OMG!!! Is there anything messier , or more uncomfortable to eat while standing? You come away with white powder all over your face, hands and clothes and yet- you've gotta have one everytime. Again tradition and atmosphere. You know we could make them in the Fry Daddy at home, but would they taste the same??? Instead we wait an entire year and go through almost shear H---, just so we can pay 20 times what it actually cost and have the experience of eating it standing up!! YUM, YUM....No matter what your Fair food obsession is, and I'm sure you have one, I think you will all agree , It all just reminds us of a time when things were simpler in our lives and we will all gladly go through all the hassels just to have the pleasures, brought to our senses , for one week every year.